How to Get Comfortable With Talking Head Videos (Even If You Hate Being on Camera)

Let’s be honest—most entrepreneurs don’t wake up excited to film a talking head video.

If your stomach turns at the thought of opening your front camera and hitting record, you’re not alone.

But here’s what’s also true: Talking head videos are one of the fastest ways to build trust with your audience.

People don’t just buy your offer. They buy you. Your perspective, your voice, your way of explaining things. And nothing showcases that faster than a video where you speak directly to them.

So let’s talk about how to get comfortable doing something that might feel very uncomfortable right now—without spiraling into a perfectionist meltdown.


1. Reframe the fear

The fear of talking head content usually sounds like:

  • “I hate how I sound.”

  • “I don’t know what to say.”

  • “I’m not polished enough.”

But these fears often boil down to this: What if I show up and people don’t like it?

Here’s the reframe: Your people don’t want perfect. They want real.

They want to hear you talk through a tip you just gave a client. They want to see the passion in your eyes when you talk about your work. They want to feel like they know the human behind the brand.

Talking head videos aren’t about performing. They’re about connecting. Think less “flawless TED Talk” and more “talking to your favorite client over coffee.”

2. Start with low-pressure formats

You don’t have to start with a perfectly lit, scripted monologue. Let’s not give Oscars just yet.

Ease in with formats that reduce pressure and still build confidence:

  • One-take answers to FAQs → Pick 1 question you get all the time. Record your answer in under 60 seconds. Done.

  • Voiceover Reels → Film simple B-roll and layer your voice over it.

  • Practice Stories → Use Instagram Stories as a warm-up space. They disappear in 24 hours. So if you panic post-recording, it’s gone tomorrow. Beautiful.

Still not ready to show your face? Try a static screen + voiceover reel first. Zero eye contact required. Baby steps.

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3. Don’t script. Bullet.

Full scripts = stiff delivery. Bullet points = flow.

Jot down 3–4 quick points before you hit record. Think of it like explaining an idea to a client, not delivering a keynote.

This isn’t live TV. You don’t need to nail it word-for-word. The more you talk about your work out loud, the easier it gets.

Pro tip? Practice out loud while walking your dog or doing the dishes. It’s shockingly effective (and way less intimidating than your camera roll).

4. Watch yourself less

This one’s counterintuitive, but powerful: You don’t have to rewatch every take.

The more you obsess over every blink and breath, the more critical you become. Instead:

  • Film → Post → Move on.

  • Or have a friend (or VA) pick the best take.

Confidence comes from reps—not replays.

Bonus tip: Film in the back camera. You can’t nitpick what you can’t see.

5. Anchor into the result

When in doubt, zoom out.

Ask yourself: “What might shift for someone if they hear me say this today?”

That question anchors your nervous system in purpose—not perfection.

And the more you practice sharing from that place? The more your content becomes less about you—and more about the connection you’re creating


🎯 Want help building content you actually feel good about? Check out our Camera-Shy to Content-Ready Kit—it’s packed with everything you need to plan, shoot, and post with ease.

You’ll get:

  • Faceless Shotlists → Never wonder what to film.

  • 30-Day Low-Pressure Content Calendar → A full month, planned for you.

  • ReelTok Video Planner → Map out your first 10 videos with clarity.

  • Collaboration Templates → Outsource with ease using email + brief templates.

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🤳 You don’t have to force confidence. You can build it—one imperfect video at a time.

Now go prop your phone against a window and hit record. Messy is magnetic.


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